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Parent Child Quality Time Project© at Greenville Parenting Examiner

Tuesday, July 27th, 2010
Photo by Dmitry Mayatskyy on StockXChange

Photo by Dmitry Mayatskyy on StockXChange

Parents of Greenville, SC, get ready to spend less money and more time with your kids.

As the Greenville Parenting Examiner, I’ve launched The Quality Time Project©, a web presence to support parents in building a better relationship with their children through spending engaged quality time together.

The Quality Time Project©

  • encourages parents to spend focused one-on-one time with each child on a weekly basis
  • offers ideas for parents and kids to spend quality time together
  • highlights resources in and around Greenville, SC for spending parent-child time
  • gives ideas that cost around $5.00 or less

The Quality Time Project© is an ongoing series of web articles, all of which remind and encourage parents to make parent child quality time a high priority. Some articles such as Mother Daughter Tea Party for Two in Greenville and Frankie’s Fun Park and $5.00 offer an unusual twist to spending time together. Other articles such as Card Game and $5.00 Snack at a Locally Owned Business remind parents of old fashioned fun that might seem “novel” to today’s kids.

I hope that parents, who aren’t already doing so will begin to set aside an hour each week to spend with each child. Some parents may perceive that they spend a lot of time with their kids, but is it engaged time? A parent and child riding in a car together can be engaged with one another or not, depending on how the time is spent. Setting aside an hour each week can help parents plan ahead to drop everything, not take phone calls and build a stronger parent child relationship.

Visit the Quality Time Project© introduction article and subscribe to the Greenville Parenting Examiner feed to receive new articles as they are published.

I’m the new Greenville Parenting Examiner

Wednesday, May 19th, 2010

Photo by John EnnisWow!  Have I had a busy spring!

I taught more parenting classes this past school year than ever before.  Recently I’ve been busy with one of my new writing jobs.

I’m the new “Greenville Parenting Examiner”, writing short articles about local information relevant to parents in the Greenville area. If you have story ideas or events that you feel should be promoted, e-mail me the information and I’ll consider writing an article about it.

I’m still the Parenting Teens feature writing at Suite101.com also. That writing does not have a local focus, but rather is a place for general information that any parent can apply to parenting teenagers. If you have story ideas for that section as well, e-mail me at KellyPfeiffer@THINKitTHROUGHparenting.com with ideas.

I’m also a contributing writer for the Kids Section at BlissfullyDomestic.com. I also contribute to other areas at Blissfully Domestic when I can.

The articles I’ve published so far at Blissfully Domestic are:

Spanking Increases Chances a Child Will Be Aggressive

Tuesday, April 27th, 2010

Photo by Kevin Rosseel-”After controlling for all these factors, spanking remained a strong predictor of violent behavior,” is one compelling quote in the Time Magazine article in the May 3, 2010 issue.

The Article is called

The Long Term Effects of Spanking

Read the full article at the Title link above.

Wordle Tool Creates a Word Pattern with Words or Your Blog

Thursday, January 14th, 2010

Image by http://www.wordle.net/

This is my blog on “Wordle”.

Wordle is a tool/toy for creating “word clouds”. It’s fun to put a blog address in and see what word cloud “Wordle” will create. There are different cloud patterns and you can change the color patterns too. See another word cloud of my blog on the public gallery at Wordle.net.

Note: Any use or display of Wordle creations must be attributed to Wordle.

Parenting Teens -Feature Writer at Suite101

Tuesday, November 17th, 2009



Suite101

Back in September, I changed from being the “Inter-Child Relationships” feature writer to the “Parenting Teens” feature writer. I’ve been very busy teaching parenting classes, conducting child care trainings and being an artist in residence in two different second grade classrooms. I haven’t posted on the blog much this fall, but I have still been writing articles for the “Parenting Teens” section of Suite101.com.

So check out the “Parenting Teens” section of Suite101 to read articles about parenting teens with Positive Discipline.

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Positive Discipline Class – Misbehavior Detectives

Friday, October 16th, 2009

I’ll be teaching another parenting class sponsored by PRIDE starting on October 27 and running through November 17. The class, “Misbehavior Detectives” meets from 6:30 – 8:30 pm on Tuesday evenings.

Misbehavior Detectives

Understanding the Beliefs Behind Your Child’s Misbehavior 

 

 

Use your emotions as clues to reveal the
main reasons for most misbehavior.
This problem solving workshop will
help parents take a closer look at misbehavior
to develop new long term
strategies for teaching children
problem solving skills, responsibility
and recovery skills.PRIDE is a part of the Greenville Hospital System
Brookwood Church kindly donates the meeting space for the PRIDE Parenting Enrichment Workshops.

Location: Brookwood Church
580 Brookwood Point Place
Simpsonville, SC

 

 


Cost $10.00
To Register, go to www.brookwoodchurch.org/brookwoodu or call 864-688-8242
Childcare is available for a nominal charge through Brookwood Church
The PRIDE Parent Enrichment Series is based on the nationally recognized Positive Discipline Curriculum

Blog Pictures Have Returned

Friday, September 4th, 2009

I’d like to thank my web host, IX Web Hosting for fixing my blog’s picture problem and restoring the images.

All I had to do was contact them and they fixed it.

Awesome!!

Lost Pictures in Upgrade — Working on It

Wednesday, September 2nd, 2009

Well, I took the big plunge and pressed “Upgrade my Wordpress”.

I wondered if everything would come through the upgrade well.  Right now I can’t see any of the pictures in my posts.

So I’m working on that, but don’t know IF I can fix it and when it will be fixed.

If you are a new visitor, the blog usually has plenty of photos to go with the words. I’m working on it. :)

Especially for “Teach Your Children to Fish” Class

Wednesday, September 2nd, 2009

Bedtime Routine Chart with PJs, Photo by Kelly PfeifferThe PRIDE parenting enrichment workshops launched for the fall last night with week 1 of “Teach Your Children to Fish”. There’s an old Chinese proverb that says, “Give a man a fish and he’ll eat for today. Teach a man to fish and he’ll eat for a lifetime.” So the class is based on that Chinese proverb and the important of teaching children life skills so they are capable.

One of the things introduced in week 1’s class last night was routine charts. So here are some of the web resources that will enhance our activities and discussions about routines and visual routine charts.

I write articles for a website called Suite101.com so here are links to those articles that relate to routine charts. Just click on the title of the article and you’re web browser will link you directly to the article.Morning Routine Chart for kids, Photo by Kelly Pfeiffer

Bedtime Picture Routine Chart for Children

Morning Picture Routine Chart for Kids

Free Printable Bedtime Routine Charts

Free Printable Morning Routine Charts

Routine Charts Versus Reward Charts for ChildrenBedtime Routine Chart, Photo by Kelly Pfeiffer

Sharing Toys is Hard at Age Two

Monday, July 6th, 2009

Photo by Kelly Pfeiffer, DO NOT COPYMany parents are frustrated that their two-year-old children don’t share well.  Parents often label their child as mean or selfish at age two when children refuse to share toys or food.

If your 2-year-old isn’t good at sharing, they are right on target for their social and emotional development. Two-year-olds haven’t developed the brain power to see things from another person’s perspective. Also at age 2, children are in an important social stage – learning to assert their own rights and personal power. So what looks like “misbehavior” for 2-year-olds is actually typical, normal behavior.

Yes, although the behavior of 2-year-olds is annoying and inconvenient, know that when your 2-year-old doesn’t share, it’s not because she’s bad, mean or selfish and it’s best to avoid labeling children with those words. Two-year-olds are being “2″ when they aren’t sharing.

Read my latest article at the “Inter-Child Relationships” section at Suite101.com

Why Two-Year-Olds Aren’t Good at Sharing Toys:

Understanding Social Development and Typical Behaviors at Age Two

Photo by Alan R de Luzuriaga, http://www.sxc.hu/photo/790741

as well as my latest blog post on the Interchild Relationships Blog which is all about understanding social and emotional skill development for infants, twos, threes and preschoolers.